Watch your step.
I Tripped on the (Polyamorous) Missing Stair
We are a group of women and nonbinary folks who have experienced relational harm from Franklin Veaux, co-author of More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Polyamory and The Game Changer: A Memoir of Disruptive Love—a man who has been recognized as a leader and spokesperson in polyamory and has a pattern of using his social capital to cause harm. This site holds our stories.
This movement grew out of the 2019 “Polyamory #metoo” callout of Franklin, and this site is managed by several of the people he harmed. Please read our Medium post about that process.
Our Stories: With Franklin Veaux
Franklin has told his stories about us for 30 years. Now we’re telling ours. Click on a name or image for complete testimonies.
Documented with the assistance of Louisa Leontiades and Kali Tal.
Analysis and Commentary
We welcome analysis from outside researchers and will link to it here as appropriate. See our contact page for information on how to work with us.
• “Abuse in Polyamory: Franklin Veaux and Polyamorous Protectionism,” by Mainely Mandy
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